Everybody is beautiful in their own way. We need to accept what we are and who we are but we don't and the problem starts there. The truth is even in this 21st century certain things need time to change. As for women, we face many problems more than anything in this world and in that body shaming is one of them. 

 I am experiencing this daily by my own family who they should support me of what i am instead they are shaming me for being skinny. This all started when i was studying in my 11th std and it still goes on. Even my own father laughs at me if i wear some fit dresses and would tease me , he said that “ this dress is meant to wear for who are perfect and not for u ,” and i was broken at that moment when my own father said to me like this. Everyone shamed me even my brothers my aunt each and everyone . One day, for a festival i said,"I'm going to wear saree tomorrow" and suddenly my aunt said by laughing," sarees can be only worn by who has a perfect body and not u". I was totally lost and i hated myself for being skinny and that moment i started to think why we should value their opinions and i started accepting myself for what i am and started loving myself. I started embracing me that moment.

 So to all the women's who lacks confidence on your body , don't be. Your beautiful in your own  way just embrace yourself for what you are and then no one's opinion will be your concern. Support other women's too. Don't tease or judge them instead support them, be on their side. When we start to accept what we are , the perspective changes and everything changes. You will be confident of being yourself. If somebody teases or shames you Don't look yourself through their eyes , their opinions do not define you. Stop evaluating yourself. Most importantly wear what you want , don't let your size hinder your style. Remember your body can stand almost anything. It's your mind that you have to convince. Stop comparing your self to others. Always remember your unique and your not them. Your body loves you and it deserved to be loved back. Embrace yourself