Today many of us face relationship issues everyday. We sometimes don't even understand if at all our relationship with our partner will last or not. We get so upset within ourselves that our regular work gets affected.

We not only can't concentrate on our work, but we literally get stressed due to our relationship issues.

One such situation is when you get to notice a constant ignorance shown to you by your partner.

I will site you the example of a situation where ignorance is actually killing the relationship.

It's the case of Meena. Meena had suffered a miscarriage at the age of 37 years and it was possibly the last time that after treatment she got to get pregnant . But destiny would not allow her to be a mother so she lost the child. Now she was married to Vijay for about 6 to 7 years  and they had no child. This was the third time she was suffering a miscarriage. 

Soon after the miscarriage, their marital relationship took a different direction. Vijay was expecting to become a father from the core of his heart, but it was all written in destiny. He was very sad that after having done so much treatment to his wife and spending such a lot of money, they could not become parents. 

Now Vijay started to ignore Meena after her miscarriage. And this became prominent to Meena. Night after night Vijay would not share bed with Meena and watch webseries for his relaxation. During daytime, Vijay would avoid any conversation with Meena and continue with his office work for 10 to 12 hours. Meena wanted to share so many things to Vijay but Vijay started avoiding her. This was very painful for Meena to bare. She obviously thought that it was her faults that Vijay was ignoring her so badly. So one day, Meena tried to discuss what she felt to Vijay. Vijay would not admit that he was ignoring her but Meena tried to give him proofs. 

Meena also wanted to know from Vijay if he was thinking to come out of the relationship. Meena was feeling so low and avoided and ignored that this relationship was becoming a burden for her each day. 

But Vijay would not come to any solution and continued to ignore her the same way. 

Now this is a very common type of issue in many Indian married couples which actually leads to failure in the marriage.

Many of us do not understand the pain of getting ignored by our partners.And even if the girl goes to tell this to her parents ,they will advice the girl to adjust with her husband.Now many of the Indian wives do adjust and spend a marital life of 40 to 50 years together but that does not mean they were happy throughout the marriage. They have only bared it all because of the sake of their social prestige. 

Now in today's world also the scene is the same. When a lady is ignored by her husband she has no one to speak up her heart. She patiently tries to bare it all  but does that make the marriage and the relationship a success??

Men do not explain to their wives or to themselves ax to why they are avoiding or ignoring their partner and this thing actually loosens all ties between him and his wife.

Similarly this applies for any couple who are in a relationship. Ignorance can create a big gap between the partners. But the best thing is to discuss and accept the truth . If the couples are no more happy with the relationship, they should first discuss the issues. If the issues are getting resolved then it's okay. But if any of the partners are nothjnterested to solve the issues and if they are just not interested in thecrelatiinship anymore ,then it's time to think for a separation.