Hello fellow bloggers! It's been a long time since I wrote. Life has picked up pace. These days I am spending most of my time in searching for jobs. One thing I have been very unlucky in is job. When it comes to jobs I have proved to be a failure. I get a job and the environment becomes so toxic that eventually I leave or if I try getting a job in another organization the organization shuts down. Money crunch has been a friend of mine since a very long time now. But that's life.

Now I will talk about the topic I have chosen for today. Love has always been decked up with different connotations and expectations with time. And in today's times it's all about show off. People love the idea of love but with a person who can be shown off to the world. People with rich backgrounds are at times lucky in love. And people like us spend half of their life time in building a good life for themselves and their family. But in case we people get lucky in love, then we are filled with so many emotions that at times we ourselves try to sabotage the relationship. Like I have seen people getting possessive. Possessive like they have to know each and every thing about their partner, which I don't think is wrong. It becomes wrong when one tries to control their partners. Few days ago I heard a boy telling his friend that ‘there is nothing personal in a relationship. When two people are in a relationship they have to do things according to each other.’ This was painful to hear because I believe a relationship is where you can be yourself with your partner. If you have to fake or change your habits which are not bad habits but you have to change them for the sake of your partner then that means you are a kind of project to your partner.

Secondly when it comes to social media, everyone is entitled to follow people of their choices, talk to them but it becomes a problem when you somebody is hitting on you and you don't tell them that you are in a relationship. That is very wrong. What if your partner asks you for your password? Will you share it? Though your partner should trust you obviously, but if a rift has been caused and sharing your password proving that you aren't wrong can save your relationship, will you do it?