Hello fellow bloggers! Today I am back with another question. This is actually the cons of living alone. I have so much to ask and nobody to ask to. Resulting in a pile of questions in my mind ready to burst out. Candlemonk is a safe platform to ask such questions I believe reason being people here don't judge. They will give you answers and in case they fail too they will simply not comment. How beautiful is that! At least no negativity is received just to pour out a delusion. So my question for today actually raised in my mind yesterday. I won't lie I am tired of myself. I want to do so much in life but everyday I fail. Resulting in stress scrolling through Instagram. Yesterday I was doing the same where I came across a beauty influencer's profile. She had thousands of followers and she had put up a story saying ask me anything. Now she started sharing the responses with answers. Some general questions were which foundation should be used on certain kind of skin, which lipstick would look good on a certain complexion and so on, until one question was “ My boyfriend isn't answering my calls these days. Nobody is aware where he is. Is he cheating on me? What should I do?" The influencer had answered to this question. She said one shouldn't run after anybody. Be it a boyfriend or a friend or anybody. If her boyfriend was mature enough he would have told the girl his whereabouts. So the girl should just relax and make herself the priority. Nobody is worth running after.
Okay! my question is the boy could have been kidnapped, or even murdered or may be dealing with some problem. I mean there could be any reason, so instead of filing for a complaint why is the girl asking the influencer this question? Also a person is lost then why is the influencer telling the girl to love herself I mean her boyfriend is missing. Also if influencers start giving such advices or logics what will the policemen or therapists or psychiatrist will do? Just a general question.
Another question was you are so beautiful I would want to take you on a date. The influencer replied that too in fake accent that she knows she is pretty and she doesn't go on dates with strangers. okay! cool! What about gratitude now? Maybe a thanks would have been much more generous. I mean a person took out some time and wasn't being a creep, what's with the attitude then? And above all what's up with the fake accent? Why?????????? Man social media is just so fake. Then people say any living thing can give you advice you have to form your opinions about it then you must. Okay! I say everybody's life is different. My circumstances will not resonate with yours. How am I supposed to give you any advice on that? Maybe I will. But what this influencer said was it an advice? Also I wouldn't go to a policeman and ask him which shade foundation will be best for my skin? I hope I am being clear in my point. In case you can tell me if I am being valid here or just being opinionated then please let me know in the comments. I would surely try to better myself.