Hi everyone! I am very pumped up today to write this blog. I wouldn't lie about a single thing I promise. So what happened is when I was in college I met a guy once who basically stole my number from his friend's phone and texted me. He said that he was mesmerized by my eyes. At first I didn't reply but he was a very clingy person. So if I blocked him on Whatsapp then he texted me on Instagram, if I blocked there then he messaged me on Facebook, if blocked on Facebook then he sent me a simple text message. I was so tired of him and as he was begging for a chance to be my friend I accepted. Soon he asked me to give tuitions to his two nephews. I agreed! Who doesn't like some pocket money? So this is how I know this guy and let us call him X. 

Soon X started calling me late at nights. At times I didn't answer but whenever I did he would be drunk. He would ask me to meet him at night. And trust me that was absurd. I would deny every single time. When drunk he would tell me how much he likes me and I an underconfident, dumb girl would trust it. He never proposed but would tell me that how he wants be to be in his future. Though I never liked him but the idea of someone liking me made me happy until one day I asked him to go to a restaurant with me. His response was- “I don't go to such restaurants. They do not match my standards.” I was shocked because he belonged to a middle class family. But I thought it's his choice. Then before me he used to like a girl during school time. Let's call her Y. Y was my friend in school. So one day I asked him if he was in contact with Y. And he started me how much he hates her. He called her names and what not and all this while I asked him to not say such things because I didn't want to hear such bad words about Y. As I said above that he stole my number from a friend's phone so that friend was Y's boyfriend. 

Now days passed and I got a call from X. He told me to come to a restaurant. The same restaurant I had once asked him to go with me. I was shocked because I remembered his so called standards. But he said there was someone else with him on enquiring I got to know it was Y. Wow!! like you say everything negative about a person today and then the next day you sit with them and eat. Audacity!!! I was shocked I said no thanks and I went home. Now at night when I checked my Facebook Y had uploaded photos with X. I was okay with it. But later at night I got a call from X, he was on his scooter coming back to his home and he wanted to talk to someone. So for this he called me. Now Y used to live in a different city. 2 hours away from my town. So basically Y told him that she wanted to come here, X took a leave went to her city picked her up, brought her here, spent the day with her, did everything she wanted to do, ate everywhere she wanted to eat and then by evening dropped her back home and then he was coming back and now to pass his time he was calling me. Again audacity!! I just said that people shouldn't hang out with people they hate. Or people should stop pretending but he said I was being jealous. How naïve!  The next day to prove himself innocent he said let's meet. And on  meeting I asked him for his phone he wasn't ready for this. I took his phone and checked it then oh my God! in those messages he was telling her that how badly he wanted to kiss her. And that girl who had a boyfriend was replying" Then you could have told me there and then." Oh my God!! what pathetic people. 

On scrolling more through his chats I got to know that it wasn't just me or Y he was talking to so many more girls. And with every girl he had the same conversation. He was telling every girl that how much he likes her. His Whatsapp was full of such conversations. I was so mad at him for playing me that I posted a photo of him with me and my friends from my birthday on his whatsapp status and wrote the caption- Love of my life. Because you don't get to play me. He started receiving calls and messages from his family members and his image was destroyed in front of every girl. I don't regret doing this because a boy like him deserved that. But Y saw his status and unfriended me on Facebook. And after this I moved to Delhi. He called me there too. Told me he was sorry and what I did to him was wrong but it was too late for me to care. I changed my mobile number and blocked him everywhere on social media.

A year later when I returned back he saw me in a shop and came to talk. He spoke nicely and told me to meet him someday. By that time I had started seeing someone. He asked for my number I was reluctant to give it to him but he promised that he wouldn't cause any trouble this time so I gave him my number. Now he started forcing me to meet him and one day I finally did. He took me to a café and started crying because according to him I left him behind and he liked me so much. Instead of working on him and making him understand I chose to leave him. As before his words were not making any impact on me and also I was in love with someone else. So I told him the same thing and he cried more saying why can't I love him? How vague! He said he hates my boyfriend because I love him. I again moved to Delhi after that and then last year I got a notification on Instagram. In 2021 I started a new Instagram account so he found me. The message was-" You always said you believe actions more than words. I have opened a store and wanted to tell you this. I did what I said." I said congratulations! Now this year he texted me again. And one day he asked me if I have a boyfriend. I said yes! And very smartly he said I don't use Instagram much and I have lost your contact if you can share it again. I did. So he texts me on Whatsapp and asks if I am in a long distance relationship? I said yes and his response was- “Tere tan badan mein aag nahi lagti?” Now with tan badan mein aag nahi lagti I thought why would I get angry if I am in a long distance relationship? But with it he meant don't I get horny? I found it very inappropriate on his part to ask such a question and I told him straight away how wrong he is. But then again came explanations and justifications that we are friends and friends do talk like this. I cleared the air saying I don't ask such rubbish questions to my friends I don't believe in such friendships. He stopped talking. Then few days ago I put a photo on whatsapp status. He replied saying- “bindi agar thodi choti hoti to tu sundar lagti.” On another photo he replied-"You are so unfit you can't do a small thing." I said nothing but yesterday he again messaged and said-"Why are you still awake?" I said I am talking to my boyfriend. He said are you really talking to your boyfriend or are you dating multiple partners? And at this I lost my mind. I told him to mind his own business. Debate grew and I took my stand. Now today morning I received another message from him saying I am an ugly, cheap person who is jealous of others and who doesn't know how to talk. I replied and blocked him then he started sending me simple text messages.  He started calling my boyfriend a dumb person because he is dating me and all I can think about was- Look who is speaking!