“Marriage“ is very simple and beautiful word. Every girl is excited when she is getting married. But do you know how hard it is to make that marriage perfect????? You have to sacrifice all your dreams happiness, all your wishes , specially your career. And know buddy will teach you how to accept that !!!!!
This things make you so so frustrated, small things make you irritated and that leads you to fight, anger.
Every buddy is talking about all happy things but know buddy talks about this frustration. You can’t do whatever you want to do. You always have to take permission of your husband, your in-law. Sometimes it feels like you were trapped in a jail……!!!!!!!!
Small things hurts you a lot but you can’t explain it to anyone. it you say than you have to listen more hurtful things. So shhhhh…… “You have to keep all the things on your heart otherwise it cause fight and every buddy will blame you for that and tell you so bad things”
You can’t meet your parents when you miss them or even you can’t even talk about that to anyone otherwise everyone think that you are not mentally set in that house, you can’t adjust , you are so pampered child etc etc…
Just think when you transfer a plant from one pot to another pot then you have to nurture them and you have to take care of that otherwise it will burn. then think we are living human. We need time , we need support, love and care.
one side in-laws are pretending like they want to become your parents and the other side they treat you like you are only came for House works.
You can’t go out when ever you want to go. you can’t say what ever in your mind. You alway have to think 1st about your in law’s comfort and about your parents. If your parents need you then 1st check that your in laws are fine? make sure they don't have any plans at that time if their schedule is free then explain them your parents situation and last ask them and take permission.
This is the whole process you have to go through after marriage whenever you want to meet your parent.
Don‘t understand who maid this rule that girl have to left her house , her parents and her comfort-zone. Why ??????
So many more things to say but I don’t have any words for that…..!!!!!!