Confused about the title?,
Well even I had to think to name the same. Yet, I think I have a valid explanation to stand by it . So , is the care you receive from others and you give out to others legit?. Can you manifest that?. Let's be real , these days everything is a business , like take and give policy . Like if you wish me on my birthday , I will too ; . Sounds humorous?. Yes it is , but that is a fact . Even if you are honest with your emotions, words and actions. If the one who is offered with , would not recognize ? . Then who does the fault fall upon? . Don't think too much , the answer is an exact antonym to whom your mind drove to!. FAMILY , is an exception and will be an exception.
How cruel and narrow minded the world is...? When you actually care they say there's a mask worn and not genuine, there's something called DISTURBANCE and ANNOYANCE too when you do care!.
When you don't care or care less irrespective of their notice , either" you are made to heard when did u ? How did you Where did you..?? Care...you never.. you aren't even aware of what's the meaning of care is..?" or "you are least interested , you do not give a thought about me ?. " Like seriously?, what does the vendor have to do? .When the acceptor is neither recognizing nor appreciating?!.
Thing to be considered is , not all those who love are not those who care and not all those who care do love.
Caring is something that can't be faked. It is indeed portrayed through your actions and words. It has to come from within , legit. It could be hidden but has to be shown on the right time. It is not about who promised , it is about who showed up!.
βTo those who don't get this will never understand the person too. Instead of complaining, learn to embrace , love , appreciate , understand and empathize.β
In my perspective , caring is completely personal and depends on how the one shows it and the other deals with it..?
You'll be pissed off by the time that the other would realize it , and you would start pretending the care that you once were honest with , "you actually might wear a mask by that time." A fake care taker.
To sum up , if someone puts in their effort to make you smile , feel caressed and not being left alone , assuring that they exist!. Just accept the fact they exist , instead of considering them as fake or situation players , get to know them! . If you can't then, do not judge them at-least.
#NOTE: Show your true intentions , don't let others acceptance or denial destroy you!.