Hello all,

Today I came up with the topic of friendship.

A couple of days ago one of my friend, we can call him Dillu asked me, Do you have friends...?

I said yes, I have many.

Dillu said, I am not asking about those friends, asking about a friend who would stay with you in every situation.

So, I started thinking about my friend. Do I have someone who can stand by me in every situation and take my hand when my situation is so worst.

Dillu said, He had a friend in his hometown, they are friends since many years and they had commitments for each other. A good friend. One day he asked for some money, the same time Dillu was not able to give as he had some personal requirements. And then he stopped talking with Dillu.

After hearing this, I was thinking what commitments was his friend done for him. The friendship was only for money or benifits.

Once Dillu helped him by giving some money when he needed. And after three years still he not returned. Now stopped talking when his need not fulfilled. There was a true friendship...?

After saying the whole story, He asked one more time, Do you have a true friend...?

I said, yes I have to.

He replayed, Then you are lucky.

Yes, I have many friends, but I can surely say two of them would with me, Infact not for any benifits purpose but they can make me again even I got broken.

I small word, "I am with you..." is the best healing medicine for many issues.

I still remember once my friend said, "I am with you." when I was broken.

Now a days people make relations for their own benifits, no one cares for anyone. No feelings no commitments. So if we get a true friend, then we are so lucky.

People would come and go, but some people come and never go. They will stay forever. And they are special.

Duration matters for some friendship, means when time goes the bonding would be more strong.

It doesn't mean my other friends are not loyal, they are but as I have said above time matters. Some relations would become special in very short time when their wave of length are same.

In my view, friendship need more time for understand each other. A friendship is not to mean for any benifits as these days we see people making relations for their benifits only, when their need full filled they move on. And some friendships are seasonal they will stay with us for a particular period of time and move.

So when you get a friend who is loyal, never leave....

Thanks for reading, will be back with another topic.