We live in a world where we have millions and more options to choose from. From life-changing career big questions to simple everyday questions, we have more options than you need. And often, we find it difficult to choose what we want. Even if we choose either, the feeling that we have missed out on something better will haunt us for the rest of the day and even in life. This is called FOMO - The Fear of Missing Out. Freedom isn't just about choosing what you want and deciding what you do with your life, it's about taking responsibility for your own choices and actions. Finally, when you muster enough courage to choose what you want from all the options available to you and miss out on the rest, you finally break free from hesitation and compose to have it all.
How to be decided?
Decision making is a multi-step process. One of the biggest reasons we procrastinate on making decisions is fear of regret. Regret is one of those feelings of resentment because you used to be able to make better decisions, but you didn't and now that time has passed. How to get out of hesitation? How can we overcome fear so we can make better decisions?
Understand your fear
The first and most important step to becoming more assertive is to know what your fears are. Introspection is the most effective way to analyze your fears. Ask yourself "WHY" until you find the root cause of your hesitation.
Understand how they manipulate you.
Once you've had a chance to know all your fears, go back in time and find out how your fears made you do things and how they manipulated you and what you can do. how better. Remember, this isn't a blame game, it's just understanding the real reason behind certain choices you've made in life.
Choose what you want. Once your vision clears from the fog of fear, prioritizing your goals to know what's important to you will help you choose what you want. When you know what's really important to you, you can choose what's best for you.
let the others go
After completing the third stage successfully, it won't be scary. After all, we can't have successfull stories. But we make it so you beleive yourself and work hard in what your dream. You'll make it and success.
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