The relationships have its own beauty with different kinds of people we meet in life, the stronger the bond we have with people and the stronger the relationship grows. But have we ever thought with every relation we are bound to fall in the unwanted expectations, how far we run from it but these both goes hand in hand if we have a strong relationship with people in our life we tend to have high expectations with them that’s perfectly fine, ok and natural but to be more happy and peaceful in our life which is the need of the hour we have to train our mind in more positive way.
So how to handle this and make a healthy relationship with people and not fall for expectations, it’s simple just accept the way they are yes it’s that simple. what we think expectation is that- The other person need to behave how we want them to behave should treat us how we wanted to be treated, Is it not putting over burden in that relationship? We just need to "Accept" people not "Expect" from them. That will surely make the relationships strong and fulfilling. And how to achieve this is by being Happy... When we are peaceful and stable then we are happy and we accept others as they are, it means we love them, because love is unconditional acceptance. The energy of love is our natural quality. It gets blocked when we become judgmental about people.
Let us be in the awareness-"I am a loveful being and so is everyone I meet, and i accept each one as they are”. Accepting people means their behaviour does not create a disturbance in our mind as we love them unconditional putting aside our expectations as expectations means loving someone with conditioned ,and we do not over burden them with our expectation we love them and adore them being what they are. Being in a relationship, love someone or to be loved by someone is a beautiful gift so we should deal with each other sensitively. We must treat each individual with respect and love and understand there situations and act accordingly. It’s surely not a one day task to clear all expectations from people and accept them how they are but trust me its worst trying and making your mind understand and train it so that it’s a healthy and happy life we live.
“Be happy be safe and value your relationships”