What is love? i asked myself today, and i went to a trance where i saw myself arguing with myself. For some love is to find real them, but for most of us love is just a way to express our self in others. But love is not a matter to posses but its a way to free our soul from immense suffering. In this world sometimes people says love is the core of the suffering where one's expectations breaks down. But i want to ask you! Is that love? No, that is more like expecting someone in the manner you wanted them. True love is free from expectation, anger, and any other emotion, it involves an only act of giving, void of any expectation or null feeling.
Sometimes love is misunderstood and fore taken in the place of Sex, from early childhood we find it in our surrounding from movies and daily chores. That when two people are deeply in love they perform the act mutually. It is quoted, Love should set another person in love with us free. Love isn’t a bondage of compromise, one should not involve in giving and take relationship because it is destined to fail. True love is free from expectation, anger, and any other delusive emotion, it involves an only act of giving, void of any expectation. Krishna Quoted in Mahabharata, “He who has no attachments can really love others, for his love is pure and divine.”
In love one losses everything and finds the supreme ecstasy. Its well said;
Like a river flows
Surely to the sea
Darling, so it goes
Some things are meant to be
Take my hand
Take my whole life too
For I can't help falling in love with you.
Imagine life as a fast-moving river. When you are acting to make something happen it will feel as if you are going against the current of the river. It will feel hard and like a struggle . When you are acting to receive from the universe, you will feel as if you are flowing with the current of the river. It will feel effortless. This is the felling of love, and being in the flow of the Universe and life. When you resist or let the felling occupy your mind that time it lead to disastrous results. Honore de Balzac said "True love is eternal, infinite, and always like itself. It is equal and pure, without violent demonstrations; it is seen with white hairs and is always young in the heart."
Thank You,
Stay Blessed And Happy