1. DEVELOP A DEEP UNDERSTANDING OF VICTIM STANCE:

• Victim stance is a kind of a mental state where we always blame others and situations.
• We are not taking any responsibilities on our shoulders.
• We never find ourselves accountable for the action. We always think situations are out of our control.
• We always feel that We are the most unlucky or unhappier person and others are the happiest persons.
• We always fill up with negativity and always blame others, for misfortune.
• We always degrade ourselves, always in a state of low self-esteem and depression kind of situations.
• We used to do negative self-evaluations.
• It starts producing hopelessness kind of negative feeling and makes the person feel low resulting in a lack of confidence.
• We always suffering from fear of failure so we generally don't take risks.
• We always surrounded ourselves with the feeling, negative emotions anger disappointment fear, etc.
• In short, we can say victims are non-contributor persons.

  2. DISCOVERY OF ‘DESTINY STANCE.’:

• Destiny stance means the way we hold ourselves for creating our own destiny.
• We are the creator of our own destiny.
• We are not going to blame anybody for any circumstances.
• We always possess positive thoughts for every situation.
• We take responsibility and start taking action to accomplish the goals.
• We always make our own path.
• We are self-confident we take responsibility for the consequences of our actions and rectify ourselves whenever required.
• Destiny stance person is known as a contributor.
• We face challenges, find out opportunities and make the path to deal with them and get success.
• We are always ready for new opportunities and open up a new vista for the betterment of ourselves as well as for society.
• We are always ready to come from our comfort zone and try something new.
• We are always ready to learn new things.
• Destiny stance person never blames circumstances for any situation we ourselves find out the path to deal with it.
• These types of persons always engage themselves in various productive activities they never state idle.

 3. MAKE A WISE SHIFT FROM ‘VICTIM STANCE’ FROM ‘DESTINY STANCE’:

• Non-contributor persons come under the heading ‘victim stance’. they always think circumstances are more powerful than them and they became a victim of it.
• There arises the need of making a shift from a ‘victim stance’ to a destiny stance.
• As victim stances are person career is full of difficulties because of their own thinking.
• That's why they have to make a shift.
• They have to change their mindset adopt the change and choose the wise right path.