Ordinary people's desires and pains
Do not mistake this article for a reminder of Buddha's teachings, "Desire is the cause of suffering." This is not the case; it is only a summary of what our ambitions and sufferings can be.
Lust and greed are two common types of desires. I'm not sure what the definition of small desire is. Little desires? Is it all just wishful thinking? Is that a questionable definition?
Sufferings are as well. It is referred to as minor suffering and huge suffering. What is the difference between little and major suffering? Our discomfort is mainly caused by suffering. Whether physical or mental.
Are these tremendous sorrows loss of material things, loss of loved ones due to natural causes, or suffering caused by others, friends, or even birth, loss of material goods, etc.?Let us hope that we are relatively ordinary people, and that our pain or yearning is not on a grand scale. At best, we aspire to be extremely wealthy and to always have money in our possession.
If you ask the rich man, he could call this desire misery. It is said that no one is happier than someone who has money.
If there is money at home...! It is said that there is no more suffering than that. It should be monitored at all times. People who need money and people who don't want it will come and nag them, they can't say no, even if they give it, they won't return it. The next one is money, what is wrong with philosophy.
It is not a small suffering for the one who gave it, this is a great suffering, many people are lamenting that my peace is gone, thinking when I will give it back to him.
If you have money at home...! It is stated that there is no greater agony than that. It should be kept under constant surveillance. People who need money and people who don't want it will nag them; they won't be able to say no, and even if they do, they won't return it. What is wrong with philosophy? is the next question.
It is not a tiny grief for the one who provided it; it is a big suffering; many people are regretting the loss of my tranquilly, wondering when I would return it to him.(Note that money is a source of anguish for them.) Do you mean they will leave it without earning it? That's not everything. Desires never sleep in anyone's thoughts; they continue to drive us.
Next, we have the worry of theft; if we have money or jewellery at home, can we safely travel overseas or elsewhere? We are concerned that if we put money in the bank to be safe, someone will steal it from us. How many people's savings have been squandered by asking them for their phone number?
It is a natural desire to have some money set aside for our retirement years.But can we deposit it in a bank and keep it safe? Every day is a fear, is it a minor or major suffering?
Let the money go, what do you mean by this urge, to eat a jalebi or a Mysore baku, but experts warn that this desire would be unfulfilled by "Sugar:"? What is this kind of desire? For people who, despite having a fairly normal desire and convenience, crave to consume this. Is it, however, a small wish for people who anticipate to eat these without ever seeing them? Is there no avarice?One thing is certain: is the agony that a wealthy person will experience as a result of the bodily difficulties caused by eating this little or severe? You can find out if you ask them. People who are uncomfortable face this difficulty as well, but they are willing to tolerate the pain and go on to the next want.Then we should become this, become like this, study hard, or learn a profession, and rise to a high position in society. Such desires are always present in the minds of the majority of citizens. Their menakadal, though, can be described as small or large suffering; yet, they transcend this suffering and reach the pinnacle.Many people are terrified of this anguish and decide that enough is enough. Otherwise, minor wishes appropriate for their age (often exceeding their age) may be satisfied and make them joyful (there are also regrets that something has been fulfilled), but if not fulfilled, it may cause significant agony to the heart, and we may be grateful that we have escaped.
Thus, aspirations and pains differ depending on their merits or location. A person who wishes to reside in a loft, and those who reside in a loft believe that it is sufficient to reside in a standard bungalow. Look at the differences between them. Desires, disappointments, and pains exist in the middle of these various principles.
One more thing. Even the achievement of minor activities makes our minds happy; similarly, even though it is a terrible suffering, we are reluctant to face it and struggle with it. Idiomatic expressions include "mannasai," "golden desire," and "female desire." But we don't have to work so hard to figure it out. The goal of this article is to demonstrate how ordinary people's expectations grow into desires and how the misery that comes their way is perceived as significant agony in the mind.
At the same time, the truly tremendous suffering is the terrible diseases of the well-to-do and the poor, and the agony they endure as a result, which causes great distress in the psyche. We are even willing to give up our lives at that point. Aside from that, there are many people who have overcome adversity and become successful in society. We live in a world where we never know what will happen next.
Even if we are urged to face the "unstoppable" as we tell others, how will we face this pain when it comes to us? The last thing we want to emphasise is that, while our lives are not in our hands, our actions are. You can attempt to control it. If we ask if we have the willpower to do this, the answer is that few people do.
