Love is a bliss
Love makes us go blind
And makes us believe that fairy tales do exist.
We embrace the feeling in our heart,
Happiness brimming as twinkles in our eyes.
It feels like all the butterflies around us are now inside our stomach
Even a look from one we love makes them flutter creating stutter.
Love is a bliss
Love is bliss indeed. The only thing in the world that makes us get up and fight is love. Love is that feeling that brims inside us for no particular reason. Love is the only thing that becomes meaningless when you search for its meaning. Love makes us do stupid things. But without love, we cannot achieve great things. Love is not one thing but is a million small things.
A teenager will have better and more colourful pictures of love than a person in their twenties. why?
This is mainly because every feeling when it is new to us makes us completely immersed in the feeling- from head to toe. A complete acceptance of feelings makes them the best thing that can ever be felt. During adolescence, the only thing that matters is how we feel, isn't it? In puberty, many of us tend to rationalise even the hurt, rationalise even the hurt, rejection and humiliation as a part of love and endure them with happiness.
First love- it is hope, a fresh feeling of happiness that makes you see another picture of the world you live in. First love makes you realise that even pain is worth it. Teenage first love is something we should all have, when I say love it doesn't have to be a two-sided one, it can be one-sided, a crush or a special feeling towards anyone or anything because that is one of the pure and innocent love we will have ever in our lives. It may not be the last but that love is going to change you, mould you and shape you into a better person. A simple and serene love that can sustain with eye contact, a shy smile and a wave of the hand. Note that here I am not talking about a love that craves physical intimacy but about that special feeling of being in love.
Now you may be thinking that why am I praising a lot about teenage love and not college love. So, what is the major difference between love in teens and love in our twenties?
Well, the answer is complex. But to put it in simple words- we mature both in thoughts and feelings and tend to adapt to the changes in our body better. Every first-hand experience which made us curious in our teens no longer interests us. We start to understand that love is another word for pain. We tend to be more self-centred and tend to reject love when it comes in our way.
Teenage gives wings to love
Twenties Take them back.
If there is one important thing to know before falling in love it will be not to go in search of love. When we go in search of love we end up being heartbroken and hurt. But when we are patient enough to wait, if we let love find us, the pain will not accompany it. First love is always a pleasant experience, especially when it is in your teens, that will definitely be a memorable event in your life. But the last love you have will be the one that changes your life bringing together all the missing pieces of your puzzle and makes it look complete. If you endure the pain of waiting for love, your patience will be rewarded- That is the magic of love.
Ganga Ambily Gopi