Why we need to listen to others to motivate ourselves?

I know, we faced a lot of issues in life and then we loose our confidence then we realise we need to do something in our life. Then we urge for this term called "Motivation".

So learn to motivate yourself first.

Don't let others snatch your happiness. 

Just remember one thing that only you are the responsible for your happiness, for your heart bre, for your mistakes. 

Whenever you feel low cry alone listen sad songs then cry again and promise yourself then you will never cry again on the same thing again. 

Learn to enjoy your own company. Learn to be happy alone. Learn to cry alone. 

Don't listen to others always listen to your heart. Heart never lies. But people does.

Do whatever you want to do. But promise yourself first that you are not going to waste your time in wrong thing and on wrong people. It's your life, choices should be yours.

Do crazy thing. 

But don't do anything to show off.

Always remember one thing,

You will grow when you will go.

You will be able to earn when you will learn.

Always prioritise yourself. People will come and go but you will be the constant. People will judge you everytime. They will call you selfish. But you will call it smartness.

Be smart, do good to others.

Always forgive everyone.

Be wise.

Don't invest your time in wrong people.

Always think positive.

Say yourself that you can do it.

Choose persons with whom you feel secure and comfortable.

Don't expect much. Expectation can kill you from within.

Notice everything but don't react only response.

Never cry in front of anyone except your parents and partner.

Never give free advice to anyone who doesn't need your advice.

Always remember you are the constant. People around you are not.

This is your thing only you can fix it.

And you are the one who can handle it.

People will blame you. They will sympathies you. But they will not understand your issue and they will not able to understand because they are not facing it.

So make yourself understand , you are the one who can make yourself and break yourself.

Don't let others effect you.

Make yourself strong in such a way that you listen to them properly then will be able to ignore their words in front of their face. Smile