It's the art of giving fck about everything that is the real problem of our life . We keep on comparing ourselves with exceptional people and feel we are just a trash of this exceptional world . We all are taught and made to believe that everyone can be exceptional , all we need to do is be workaholic and keep on working towards our goal . This is the biggest lie we continue to believe . If everyone can be exceptional then no one is exceptional .. isn't it correct  . But because we believe that everyone can we can be exceptional , whenever we fail to do something exceptional , we start giving f*ck about what everyone around us will think of us , we believe we are defected .

And to overcome that feeling we try to be exceptional by being worse .We either victimize ourselves i.e. blame everything on our circumstances ,  on our parents , on our friends , on our teachers who failed to teach ourselves to be acceptable in the society  or continue to stay in a state of denial ,thinking we our successful in spite of not achieving anything great . Both of the two state mentioned above leads to our doom . One forces us to be exceptional by being worse and the other makes us an entitled person .  

The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*ck is the only book you need to read if our suffering from similar conditions . The way it's written connects you with the writer, " Mark Manson". It's the book which changed my life. It gave me confidence to accept myself as I am . It completely changes your perspective towards your life . It inspires you to take actions to improve yourself .

It has amazing concepts like “The Backward Law”, “Impact Of Entitlement” ,“Disappointment Panda “, ”Emotions Are Overrated ”, "Relationship" “Inevitability Of Death” which instantly relates your present conditions . If you miss to read this book , I can assume you missed the opportunity to make your life ahead peaceful , full of satisfaction and full of happy relations . If you read this book in your 20's nothing is better than that . If you ask me top 5 books I recommend reading in your 20's it will be one of them for sure .

Here I am sharing my personal favourite quote from the book 

Death is the light by which the shadow of all of life's meaning is measured. Without death , everything will inconsequential, all experiences arbitrary, all metric and values suddenly zero