So in the previous blog I have mentioned the need to be extremely selfish . In this blog I am going to tell what I mean when I say be “Extremely Selfish”.
So much Selfishness is extreme selfishness ?
If I am driving on road and I encounter a person wounded on the road ,bleeding profusely , still alive though but can't say for how long ? I will not even think of stopping to get him to hospital . Why ? Because that's not my problem . I don't want to deal with repercussions of helping him . I don't want to give statements in courts , police stations . I don't want to pay for his hospital bills . I don't want to let his family know about his plight from my mouth , who knows they may start blaming me for the accident . And most importantly because I know no one will help me if I was in place except my parents . Believe It or Not world is like this my friends and we could do nothing to change it , we can only change ourselves to survive in this world.
(After reading the above paragraph most people will start commenting abusive stuff about my thinking .. But would it be worth your time . Do you really think your comments could change my three years of thinking that had completely changed my life for good ? If so you can try)
After I told one of my friends about my thinking . He came up with this story about his mother . The story was
One day he and his mother were going somewhere on scooty . He was driving it . His mother needed to do some stuff on the other side of the road and then the needed to continue moving straight . So they decided not to take a U-turn and waste time and petrol , so her mother got off the vehicle and started crossing the road where she was bumped by a motorcycle . The motorcyclist tried to run away but was caught by other people and got physically and verbally beaten up .
So concluding the story he said ,"See you need to believe in people they would help you “. To this my simply reply was -”How many of the people that helped were successful “ . To this he replied -”None" .
And was convinced of my point . None of the success-full people has the time to wasted on things which are not his/her problem . And that's the truth my friends
Can continue if you want>>>