Anxiety is a stage where we worry about stress and Society is a stage which is responsible for our worry about stress.
Society is not just a community it’s a group of people who’ve got the right to judge people on the basis of their appearance, their way of walking, their way of talking, etc., etc. without knowing the character of a person and the main thing is that their own family members are not included in this judgmental game. The main point is that this right is not given to them by any law or act, they themselves own these rights. These gossip queens and kings who put their nose in everyone’s business are self-made judges without any course and degree. And our society has given them more importance than a person’s life. These are also famous as the “CHAAR LOG” of our society.
These 4-5 aunties whose own houses are made of glass throw stones on others houses, they never notice what their daughter or grand daughter is wearing but they will be sure if they had seen the girl in the pink top on the bike with a guy is Sharma Ji’s daughter. They don’t have work in their house so they work on different topics of the society like Feminism, Equality, Freedom, Violence, Safety, etc. But these aunties are not interested in the welfare of the society they are worried about the welfare of their own. If they see a girl and a boy hugging each other on the road then they’ll be like These people don’t have their house or what, and when the same thing happens like a husband is beating his wife then they’ll be like “Accha hain aisi auraton ke saath aisa hi hona chahiye”. If they see a girl with a boy then they’ll simply judge you in the boundaries of girlfriend boyfriend that’s it, and when the same comes at their own kids they are like “They are just friends”. If you go to a job or study more then they’ll just say “Ladki ambitious hain, Roti kahan khilayegi”. They just try to fit us in a boundaries made by them.
These are literally the reason behind why students, teenagers, youths, men and also women all are going into depression and becoming mentally ill, this is no less than torturing us. People are scared of opening up their flaws, their talents, their weaknesses and their ups and down. We always think twice before showing it to the society. The main thing is that we always think “Log Kya Sochenge” But my father always said us that “Log Kya Sochenge, Woh Bhi Hum Sochenge, Toh Log Kya Sochenge”… Once you become fearless of these things you won the race already. Because all this bothers only if we bother them. These things are not okay and right in front of this people but is always right in god’s eyes.
So ignore these silly obstacles and do whatever makes you happy. Always be positive and ignore the tantrums of this Judgmental Society.
