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So this blog will all be about codependency.  

Co- dependency is a behaviour of a need of forming relationships with people that are one sided, emotionally destructive or self abusive. This is also popularly known as" the relationship addiction". It is also known as excess selfishness.

As humans we naturally crave intimacy and attention and that is totally healthy at some limit. Codependency affects your partner, friend, parent, etc. True love is when you love your partner without completely depending on them.

Love yourself enough to set boundaries. Your time and energt are precious. You get to choose how you use it. You teach people how to treat you by deciding yourself what you will and what you won't accept.

                             ~Anna Taylor.

It is not always codependency to desire a romantic relationship or a romantic partner. That can just be basic human nature depending on the context. Co- dependency is when we sacrifice our own values, self esteem and needs in order to be seen our or accept by another person. Co-dependency is when we look for another person to fix all our problems, to save us or fill a void in our hearts. It also often involves a certain level of manipulation from at least one of the partners involved. 

You can still desire romance without being co dependent. This is actually just another of very good example of why it is important to observe the deeper motivations and the “why” behind your own actions behaviours. You should always remember that people are not the same, perspectives are different.

A codependent person is one who has let another person's behaviour affect him or her and who is obsessed with controlling that person's behaviour.

What is toxic co- dependency??

In a toxic codependent relationship, one person is like a poison and tends to absorb the energy of the other one by being the selfish one. The other partner is known as the codependent, they take full responsibility of the other one at the cost of their own time and wellbeing.

In a toxic relationship, a person might experience self sabotage, addiction, obsession, abuse and other negative things of the bond. 

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