There is a wonderful interconnection between your state of ease and your choices.  

Once you understand this connection, I am sure you'll be able to improve the quality of your life. 

First, let us understand this.

The choices we make determine the experience we have in life. 

If we are not feeling at ease, there is a higher possibility that we are choosing something that's not joyful at all. 

But do you know why we make such unpleasant choices despite knowing their unpleasantness?  

Because it has somehow become our habit. 

So, unless we are willing to change, nothing changes. 

On the contrary, when we are feeling at ease, we are actually choosing something better and truly rewarding for us. 

The feeling of not at ease (dis-ease) exists because there's something going wrong. 

Other way of realizing this is : There is no effect without a cause. 

So, if we are feeling unpleasant (which is an effect), there is something going wrong in the cause. (Our thoughts, feelings, choices, body energy) 

These effects allow us to look inwards and choose something better. 

Once we begin to choose better one after the other without giving attention to unpleasantness, we begin to feel the natural ease of our existence.  

We feel open and grounded. The energy blocks get removed. 

And a lot of understanding, which might not have come otherwise, begin to flow through us.

We begin to express ourselves more joyfully. 

In fact, a lot of our frustrations melt away in the presemce of illuminated ease. 

Now, as we begin to choose better, we actually begin to feel more at ease. 

And the more at ease we are, the better the choices we make. 

This actually brings us close to who we actually are. 

Also, we remember the choices we had made in the past that made us feel uneasy.  

So, based on our experience, we don't repeat the same mistake.  

This time around, our understanding deepens and we begin to choose better.  

And with better choices, we create a better life. 

Life is full of beauty and happiness when we are ready to see things from a different perspective.  

Or rather from a deeper, clearer perspective. 

It's true that we can't change people's thoughts for us, and a lot of situations. 

However, we can surely change our cause (Our thoughts, feelings, actions and interactions), which then brings about a change in our effects. (Results act as reflections of our cause. The better the cause, the better the results.)

Infinite Love! 😇♥️🙏