Hey everyone!
Nowadays, you might find various blogs, articles, etc on teenage, or how things change in teenage years, or how parents should deal with their children in this period of time, or how they can help them. Do you all know why is it important to spend time with your child and focus on them in teen years of theirs? For those who are not yet aware of this, let me tell you that in teenage years, teenagers go through hormonal changes. And due to these hormonal changes, there is change in their behavior, mindset, and even physical change can be seen.
These changes are not something to worry about, as the changes that teenagers undergo are to make them a more mature person. But, sometimes things go wrong if they are not guided properly by those around them. In teenage, children try to copy each other, and to keep with the trends. They become eager to know everything, and in this eagerness sometimes they are introduced with mature things in a wrong way. Some get addicted to drugs, and all. And this further leads to life-long problems, such as addictions, fake friends, greed, and things like that.
Parental guidance and friend circle really play a major role in these years. If someone have good friends, they might get some good qualities of each other, and even if they don't, then also its not harmful for them. But if someone has fake friends, who are not loyal, or are not a good influence, others will definitely get influenced with their wrong habits. But if parents pay full attention to their child, and provide them with knowledge of good or bad, things can be different.
Parents usually are stuck in their own routines, and miss out on spending time with their children. Whereas, it is important to understand your children and make them your friend, so that they confide in you and not others, who might take advantage of it. Parents should understand the fact that if they won't try to know the feelings of their child, then there are chances that someone else might understand and might even try to do wrong things by winning their child's trust. If once parents try to understand their children and make their children understand their point of view also, then situation might be better for both parents and children. And I am not saying that only parents should understand their children because relations are always two-way, so the same goes for children also.
I won't take much of your time now. All I wanted to convey is that a good parents-children relationship is well-built base for the future of both, and especially children. Trust and understanding are two such factors in this relation that makes it so strong that no outsider can never ever try to break it through any tricks or treachery.
I hope you all will understand.
Thank you.