When we are in our childhood we remain very much connected with our parents. As we tend to grow this connectivity gets lost to some extent especially in our teenage years. Now , we have to understand that this has been happening to every generations from time immemorial. So this is but something very normal. This is not a disease or an abnormality. This is very common in all teenagers. Today I would discuss about the privacy issue with the teenagers and the parents issues with the teenagers.

Privacy issue of the teenagers

Many teenagers complain that there parents constantly question them if they are late to reach home. The parents check their mobiles where their privacy is disturbed. Parents don't seem to trust them for the little things.  Now, these are the common issues of the teenagers. They always complain these things. To the teenagers, I would like to say , that parents are so inquisitive about their children because they want them to be safe and secure. Parents are constantly worried about their children so they want to know about every details of their children. This enquiries should not be mistaken by the children especially the teenagers. This ensures that parents are concerned about their children, which is a blessing. There are so many orphan children in this world who can never expect this concern from anyone. This is to be understood by the teenagers that in order to make their lives more disciplined and more organized the parents investigate their privacy. They actually do not bear any evil intention against their own children….This is to be understood by the teenagers . 

Issues of the parents with the teenagers

Parents should understand one thing very clearly that teenage is the time of constant mood swing, withdrawal of communication, irritable moods and unexpected sadness. These are the common things experienced by every teenager. So parents have to help their children during these phase by being more patient and understanding. This teenage is a growth period where many hormonal changes take place  which prepares them for their total mental and physical development for the future. So this age is a very delicate age for every teenagers which has to be controlled with care by the parents. And parents need to trust their children. Always questioning them on their privacy is  not a good thing to do because that would question the trustworthiness of the child. The child should also understand that he or she is to be trusted in whatever situation they are subjected to.