Hi friends ,I think everyone are good while reading this ,here I say about the important and uses of self-control.The main factor behind success is self-control.Selfcontrol helps a person to achieve the goals and accept the failure of their life .

What is self-control?

1.Waiting patiently until you get what you want. 

2.Dont do anything rushly and do calmly.

3.Do a work which you dislike means also.

4.Think higher everyone than yourself.

Importance of self-control.

Who shows self-control are able to suppress a bad desires,they know doing bad things gives happiness so they didn't do that .But who don't have self-control they be like

1.Behave rudely.

2.suffer from depression.

3.Addict to cigarettes, drugs, alcohol,etc..

4.They eat everything what they see.

In research , self-control shows person in their future life they will not affect in health problems and financial worries, so houch much we have self-control that much it useful to it..

How to get the habit of self-control?

Try to tell “no”

Bible advice,

Let your “yes ”be “yes” and let your “no” be “no”- Mathew5:37.

If parent says no to their children they cry and do everything for achieve their liked things ,if the parent is clever in their decision to say no the children be quite otherwise they keep this habits of crying to achieve their liked things ,the parent is strong in saying"no"the children knows the important truth “they did not get everything they like ”.The fact is who achieve in their liked things they will not happy who knows this the truth they will be happy in their life.No use in saying to your children" you can achieve everything",for this the parent used to say hard-working gives achieve in their life it will helps children to achieve.

In the childhood the parent says "no" it will help the children to tell "no "for their dislikes.

Help us understand the consequences.

Your child need to understand that every action has consequences, especially if man behave without self-control there will be dire consequences.He should understand that maybe if he gets angry for anything,others will stay eight feet away from him,but if he behaves calmly and patiently when others stir his anger ,everyone will like him and so impress in yours child mind that self-control will bring many blessings.

Help them to decide what is important?.

Bible advice,

You must make a sure the most important things -philippians 1:10

Self-control is not just not making mistake.selfcontrol is about getting things done even if we don't feel like it ,so teach your child what is important and stick to it,for example help him to understand that homework is more important than playing.

Thus,this are the important points to make your children correct and make you correct because selcontrol is there you will  achieve your goals .Thank you for reading and be a self controller .