What is marriage, first thing that comes to our mind is celebration,get together,parties, foods,dresses, jewels,etc.but what matters is two souls,each person is unique and each one cannot become someone else whom we are not but the magic in marriage is two souls becoming one,that oneness is celebrated by others,marry when your really ready not for others,it matters a lot,the most important decision in life is marriage because it plays with your emotions,if you don't like a job you can leave it or change it but here it's your life changing moment, if you choose correct you'll enjoy it's fruit or it will ruin your life, ofcourse in today's world everything is possible,if you don't choose right the first time,we give a next try but the first feel , love and emotions change for never,you can't wash it away ,it stays deep inside you till your last breath,we can say we can forget and be normal to the society but your destroying yourself inside you,it matters of two hearts,mind,soul and body.
It takes a whole lifetime to make this relationship the best and we really don't have time to spend on other people talks and expectations,it's a relationship very important in everyone's life because your rest of the life depends on your partner.
People say,you take a great responsibility and there are many hardships in marriage,of course there are responsibilities but we do everything with love and nothing is countable in love,we never count the things we have done for them and we never revenge.Forgiveness, attention, love and care increases each time.we always remember others faults but here we forget everything and that's magic and logic in love,we have already accepted them as ourselves and we never find fault on us.couples logic are unique ,it can be accepted only by them and not by the world,it's strange, no-one matters to them and they live in a different world and this is the history of love that follows for generations,each one's way of relationship is different and we can't judge the way they are ,each couple is unique,domination never survives in a best couple ,people tell about cultures and traditions of marriage but nothing really matter.
Each couple have to create their own culture and tradition,no one's beliefs and practices should be insisted to them,they have their own world and they are the rulers for their kingdom,we can't marry for the society and live a chained life for others,listen to your heart ,it showed you your partner and it will show you the way to live a happy life,a chained heart and mind can never live a positive and happy life, accept yourself,free yourself from everything that brings you down ,love unconditionally,do what you want and you can,talk what you think,be logical,value your partner,other relationships come side by side by itself but marriage has to be built by you and your partner,no ideas of others or no salvery of others will give you a good result,you are not employed in a family after marriage but you have become a partner so each of the partner have all equal rights to play,if there is no partnership there is no relationship.partnership is being a half owner.
It's not working for wages, you cannot satisfy everyone and your not born to satisfy everyone,your here to live your life and your partner helps you live your life.most precious thing in the world is your marriage it's just not a stage play to mask and packup when it's over,we become slave to each other for love and do everything with love.
We always dress up with clothes which suit us ,we eat food which is good for us and do everything we think is good for us so in marriage we can only do what is good for us cannot do what is good for others,and there is no time to do everything what others want ,they have their own time and life to satisfy them and we are not born to do it for them, Marry when you find the right one and when you think you can live for them as you live for yourself, marriage is between two persons not more than that so it's a lifelong journey to work on them not on others.
A place where you are going to adopt and adapt,be like a mother and act like a child ,place of freedom,where you can laugh and cry,be yourself in your own world being a king or a queen.
We don't try to fit in to a small cloth,but prefer a dress which is fit and free ,to be free the whole day so how is it possible to fit to the cultures ,beliefs and traditions which is suffocating for the whole life which was found by someone for their convenience.
