I started talking to him when i was in ninth grade.We were facebook buddies.I had a huge crush on him but I was not sure that it was mutual and at that time i was very underconfident about myself.I could never meet him in person because i was not sure about whether he would like me,the way i looked,the way i talked,the way i dressed and everything.And then one day i started having some issues with my facebook and i had to deactivate it.

We lost touch after that day.But then one day after 3 years he messaged me on instagram,his message read,"Hey,pehechana?".

I was thrilled on seeing him back.He said he tried contacting me,finding me but he couldnt and then he got busy with his studies but today he saw me in  his suggestions as he was a happy as I was.We got to talking and we used to talk every night he called me his “1 am friend”.I used to wait for the day to finish so that i get to talk to him.Today I was a confident girl who had no insecurities about herself.He asked me out on a date and I decided to give it a thought because i didnt want to rush into anything but we continued talking.And then one day I had a family event where i had to be (my maternal cousin sisters engagement).I was there all dressed up and guess what I saw him there!

He was looking all handsome,we couldnt get our eyes off each other ,it was the first time we were seeing each other in person.We had this eye contact thing going on throughout the event.Then when we got home we texted each other that why we were at  that event.I told him it was my cousin sister's engagement and he said his too.I got into serious thinking that night about how we are related.

The next morning i asked him his parents name and gathered the guts to ask my mum about them because i knew if i asked she would have a lot of questions of  why?! And i could not tell her that i was talking to a random guy.Somehow I made up a story and asked her about them and she said that his father is her brother that makes us cousins or more precisely,BROTHER AND SISTER.

I told him about this and then we stopped talking to each other since then.