Love, a feeling that keeps us attached and close to someone whom we feel very special to us. Love brings care, understanding, respect, trust and a lot of happy moments with it. Not only humans but other living beings also feel love. Love of parents for their children, love for friends, love for our hobbies. But in this blog I'll express my feelings on love between two people and will try to develop a much more explained definition for love that is not forced.
When two people have feelings for each other, their mind and heart both gets attached to them. We keep on thinking continuously about our partner. We develop a habit of them. Talking to them, chatting with them and meeting our partner becomes the reason for our happiness. Their thought strikes us everytime. We become eager to know what they are doing, how's their health, whether they are in a trouble or facing any problem. We start caring for them.
But it is not necessary that if we love someone they too will have the same feeling for us. It is a feeling that is developed living, talking and spending time together. We just can't force anyone to feel the same for us. Yes we can express our feelings to them, but this should not be expected in the very starting that they too feel the same for us. In many cases the person you love may want to be with you but it's not necessary that they will have feelings for you.
In these type of cases we must give time to them . Love is a feeling that can't be forced, it develops ina span of time if the person is interested in you. Just coming in someone's life, expecting them to love you too and if they dont love leaving them with curse words and feeling of hatred can't be expressed as true feeling of love.
Love needs patience. It doesn't develops in quick span of time. It requires a lot of efforts and and understanding. We will have to understand the situation of our partner. We just can't force our feelings on others. It's us who feel this for them, not they.
Love needs trust and faith. No relationship stays without trust. We will have to show trust to our partner and make them trust us. Then only we can develop feeling of love. We should never put restrictions on our partner, it just shows that we don't fully trust them. No one in this world wants to be restricted. Everyone loves their independence. We don't have any right to restrict anyone. So trust your partner and leave them free and independent.
So, love your partner a lot , trust them, be patient, understand them and be with them in every situation. This is all what love needs. It is a very special feeling and can not be forced. Keep loving 😘.
Thank you ❤️