Many of the women folk thinks that jealousy is not a good thing for them. But jealousy is something which can also help you to improve in life. I will cite some examples to actually show you how jealousy works well with women to improve themselves.
Case 1
This is a normal couple jealosy which every women have if their partner or boyfriend or husband are somehow interested in other women. Not necessarily the partner should fall in love with other women, even if he looks or appreciates other women, their is a jealousy in his wife or girlfriend. When a wife notices that her husband is appreciating some set of qualities in another women then immediately she compares herself with that lady and tries to find out what shortcomings she has, that her husband does not appreciate her so much. This curiosity itself helps the wife to find the fault in herself and change herself. Say, if a wife is a little bit bulky and her husband seems to appreciate some other lady who has maintained her figure well. Then this could actually change the wife for better. She could actually feel it necessary to change her diet and exercise everyday, when she finds that her husband appreciates a good figure. So this type of jealousy can actually bring good change in a woman. This jealousy can only prove to be an inspiration for the wife.
Case-2
Rita and Dona lives in the same society and their husbands work in the same office so they often get together at weekends and they go out for touring and other places also together. Now Dona happens to work in a reputed firm and earns a good pay at the end of the month. So everybody appreciates her skill and her hard work. When Rita finds women in the society appreciating Dona for her job, Rita feels very jealous and low for not doing a job. She has actually no grudge against Dona but she is jealous of her joblife and this jealousy actually motivates her to work . Rita sits with herself one day and tries to find out what she can do to earn some good money as well as take care of her family. This jealousy actually stimulates her to use her talents and potential to earn for herself. Today Rita is also enjoying her work along with homemaking.
So we see that jealousy is not always bad or negative . It can actually bring into yourself to work for better. So take this ‘jealousy’ within you in the right way and bring positive changes in your life.