We often change our thinking process and mental cool for the reactions shown to us by others and that's the most natural thing. 

People around us always effect our mindset and our mental cool that's what we like to belief.

But that's where we go wrong.

Initially its okay for us to think that way but as we grow we need to think in a different way. 

If we constantly mind on others reactions towards we can hardly grow.

Others have different parameters to judge us. But we ourselves should not judge ourselves in the way others judge or react towards us.

The very first thing that we can do to solve this problem is by using our humor and wisdom. There will be so much reaction from others each time we do anything and that will remain but where is our wisdom? 

If we do not have wisdom then we have to really pray for it. Because wisdom to think what is right and wrong for us is the greatest wisdom. If we do not possess this wisdom then we will remain the same fool for lifetime.And get bullied by others.

Having thd right sense to handle negative people is tough but it's achievable. Just have the trust inside you no one can break you.

Maa Sarada said, “ Never find faults in others, find fault inside you” . I trust this entirely. If somebody is telling you or reacting with you in a negative way then its your fault that you are getting angry with them and reacting badly or loosing your mental cool. 

Never leave a scope for others to tell negative to you . And if then Aldo  they continue to react in a negative way, try to find your own faults . And if you cannot correct your own fault then accept the fact that your performance is not okay.

And drop the stress inside you and tell to yourself that “ I have fault inside me so I need to correct myself” .

If we stop ourselves from getting stressed by others negative reactions and work on ourselves  then definitely we can rise and shine in our future and in this way we can correct ourselves for the better.

Simply finding faults in others and loosing our mental cool is very foolish thing to do.

I wish all my friends on Candlemonk for happy blogging and also reading.

Let's all be happily sharing our thoughts and expressions and also enjoying the blogging …experience in Candlemonk..!!