Loving ourselves is very good. We should take care about our happiness first but it should not be so much that we don't take care of others at all.  There should a sense of maturity in us that we think about others too. There are some instances where which I will describe as example.

Giving Gifts-  We all love gifts, don't we…So when we gift others with something beautiful, others will also happy. This is very simple feelings. Just see how wonderful you feel when somebody gifts you something. So you can also do the same thing and make others happy by gifting others.

Making a dish- Suppose you are making some dish of your choice to please your heart. If people are around, then do share with them too. Sometimes try to cook beautiful dishes to please others., This not only helps others but also makes you satisfied in some ways.

Making a handmade presentation- Sometimes try to create something on your own to gift others. For example, if you knit a sweater for others and gift it with a smile, there is no one in this world who would not like it. 

Doing something for others- Sometimes people are in need of your help but they cannot express them to you. Be proactive to help them out. Some times you might not get that good behavior from others but don't stop helping others. This is something which will help you to lead a better life..!!

Buying useful things for other- Sometimes you will come across people who are in need of food, medicines and a bit of care. Do make it a point to help them out as much you can. There are some people in this world who have no one in their life and they are physically or mentally in capable  also.  Don't hesitate to help them out. If you cannot help them out by being physically present you can arrange other aids for helping them. You can also help them with monetary support as much you can afford. 

Giving occasional call to others- We don't call others for nothing these days. Only in times of need we call them. This has become a common thing. Today in this advanced world where we get free calls facility, we do not call others and waste our time. But few days back when we had to pay for our calls, we used to call so much and do texts also, frequently.

So we are changing. Lets not change for the bad. Lets call others and have a bit of chat for some time at least. This should not be an intentional call, this call should not have any motif or productivity. This should be just a casual and  friendly call.

Giving time to others-

Your time is valuable but its  not as valuable as life. If you always think of your own time and how to utilize it in a productive way, you might just be a wastage. If we don't keep some time to help others and make life beautiful, there is no way we can do great things with time. If the people around us are not happy then there's no way Time can make you happy…!!

So making our self happy is something very essential these days.. but forgetting about others and being selfish is not the correct way to consider life..!!

Lets help others and stop being selfish to make ourselves the happiest..!!!