There are many negative incidents happening all around us every time, needless to say.

But if we somehow tackle those situations and come out of the negativity of the situation then thank yourself for the miracle. This life will subject us to unnecessary negativities in life. And in most cases we become the victim of such negativities. But if we somehow manage to come out of that negative situation somehow then we should try to learn from the reason why that situation took place. 

This world is full of negative minded people and they keep on polluting the place by shedding their negativities.

If we cannot such situations then the best thing is to identify the person who sheds the maximum negativity to us and plain and simply avoid that person for few days at least.

This is because its a natural thing that people change after sometime. They also experience life and they might change completely after few days. Sometimes some people do not grow or change , buts its very rare. But after some time if we meet that same person, they might change completely.

So the point is if a person and his negative mindset completely affects us badly then its the best thing to avoid that person for some days at least. And we should try to get out of that negativity that person imposed on us.

Sometimes  we cannot take out or mind from that negative impact given to us by that person. So what I do is read something very interesting, refreshing, cook, have some tea, or listen to some music. But another best way is to talk about that situation or negative incident or write it out.

If we cannot express our negativity or release that negative energy then it becomes a burden on us. So clearing it off through something is the best option. 

Now if we write about it in some diary or a writing book or somewhere then afterwards when we get out of that situation we can get back to that writing and learn the lesson from the incident. And I think that's the best way to deal with negative minded people and negative incidents in life. 

Now its not possible for us to deal the negative incidents  in that way. It really become impossible for us to even understand that unless we come out of it. Many relationships, friendships, bonding's, partnerships, marriage get broken by these negativities and this kind of tough negativities . So if we somehow manage to tackle the situation then we need to understand how that situation affected our mindset into negativity. And thereby we should understand how to take care of ourselves from those kind of negativities in life. 

And the focus should be always to bring more positivity in life after having understood the negativity of the situation.