Hello all, this blog is for those who are in a dilemma and have contradicted ideas bombarding their mind.

Outspoken people always achieve in their life. For eg. Take the play Othello and where Desdemona defends his love against their father. And in the epic silapathigaram, Kannagi fought against the injustice that had happened to his husband Kovalan. 

I felt that those who are outspoken can make others feel their presence. Those who are introverts like me, reluctant to be outspoken so we prefer to write our thoughts. Our mind is designed to be like a sponge it will absorb all things into it and once it became pregnant with things it automatically seeks a way to expel them. So people either boast or else write. If not the case means the suppressed feelings will come as a dream.

The dream is a clear visual picture which can only be seen by us but not others. The person who suppressed the thoughts would suffer pressure. But expelling things out of our minds makes us feel like a feather. When you go on to build up the rage inside one day it will become a disastrous wave. So be clear when you spoke as well because words matter much once you spilled they can't be taken back.

I have an experience in life where I had a chance to express but sometimes I take myself back to talk. Afterwards, I feel ashamed of myself, so friends always grab the chance to make others notice your presence. No one will remember the days but the moments, the moments are recorded and inscribed into our hearts both sweet and bitter moments will lose their influence on us. Because as time goes on it will lose the degree of effectiveness it has on us. Thanks to time and humans are designed to be like that. Some incidents in our life will always cause an affliction that has strongly imbibed in our minds and when those similar incidents are about to happen again we can feel that same sense of sorrow or fear that strikes our minds like lightning. This lightning effect would also have some tingling sensation in our stomachs and calm down after some time. Whatever happens in life, our system, time heal ourselves. So don't hold back your feelings or whatever has in your mind. Just unleash yourself so that your soul can reach the cliff of the mountain and shouts it's the voice which comeback as an echo and repeats the same thing but the frequency change so the matter is unchanged in the echo. Likewise, make your voice out and make others be your echo.