When we are obese or a little more healthy than what it should be….you get those weird looks from the society.  

you get comments like…

 Omg. You have gained so much…!!

You should have been little less than this….!!

Why have you gained so much weight?

Omg …you have gained so much weight , you will find it difficult to find a handsome guy!!!

And all such questions continues…until and unless you are back to normal….But what is normal?? who decides that???

Why would the society decide about my figure and the way I look like?? I don't think that the society cares too much about my well being… Its not that my neighborhood aunty is so much worried about me, that she always tells me to loose weight…😊

Because loosing weight would actually do me good, I know that…but  are the society always thinking of my good??? Are they really trying to do good to me?? are they really worried about my well being?? 

I really do not have answer to these questions…!!

Who decides how much we can put on?

This is really a strange question which comes to mind as to who is the person who decides how much weight is good and how much is bad….What we should be? How we should look? I mean. Its our choice and we should have the freedom to carry ourselves the way we want to.

Am I feeling good after gaining weight?

If I am feeling fine even after gaining weight. If I don't have a fitness issue , then I don't think that the society should give a ear to my problem. If I am obese or fat, then that would be problematic for me…But still then, I would have to carry out my daily duties, my regular work …everything. If the society keeps on reminding me the same thing, then they do me no favor.. They are just helping to loose my confidence.. 

Why is the society back of our figure?

Even if I am fat…So what? My brain is not fat.. My brain has not gained fat..

I work the same or even better than what I used to do before. So what's the problem in gaining weight?? 

If it does me bad, let it be my own concern….Not the society's concern..!!

I am good the way I am

When you are fat, and you feel very confident and extremely happy about your life… then the society should not have concern about our well being…!!

You know it very well that there are things that you should give importance in your life..

Being fat or thin , is not the issue. 

You have to be happy from your heart, you have to take life in a positive note. And if the society comes to make you sad by telling negative things about your figure…turn a deaf ear to them….!!!

But you have to feel good about your figure, you have to admire yourself…then only can you be happy with your life….!!😊😊