Today I am going to share some thing that I have understood so far being in a conjugal relationship for 6 years. I had never been into a serious relationship before my marriage. But there are some experiences that I really want to share about my marital life  and of course these are something that will help you to understand your relationship with your partner.

Any relationship requires a lot of patience to carry on . If the level of patience of one of the partners  balances with that of the other partner, then only can the relationship breathe well. 

There  are times when both the partners are stressed out of work, household, children, in laws etc. Those are the most troublesome times. And those are the times when any relationship can grow or die. 

The couples who understand the mind of their partners are also aware of the break through points of each other. They exactly understand when their partners are gonna feel stressed or relieved. But this stage of understanding requires several years of hard work. And if that much of patience is not given into the understanding of the minds of the partner, then there are high chances of the relationship to break down.

There are lots of couple in this world who always complain about their partners drawbacks and how adjustment becomes a problem for them. The basic requirement in any relationship is patience. You need to give that considerate amount of time to understand the temperament and mind of your partner. You have to understand when to communicate what kind of stuffs to your partner so that they do not get upset or bored with you.

Only thorough observation and patience can help us to find that bond which can make us lead a life together with peace and bliss. 

Although there are times when we do not have the patience ce to understand our partners. But these are most vulnerable times, when actually your bonding gets tested strongly.

Fighting with your partner and shouting at each other is very very common in every relationship but with time and patience this tenacity of shouting at each other diminishes. When you get to understand that your partner will repeat the same mistake even if you shout at him thousand times, your urge to shout at him will definitely take at backseat. 

There are many other observations and fascinating things in a relationship that will actually amuse you if you are in a long standing relationship. Today I have spoken about the role of ‘ patience’ . Next time I will definitely speak about another aspect.

So please read my blog ands share your views about your relationship.