Doesn't the topic really surprise you?? Its really surprising to find people suffering from fear of getting rejected. Most of the young folk are not ready to go for an arranged marriage. Most are reluctant to go for an arranged marriage. Most of the young able bachelors and girls are wanting to get settled in the “ cool” way. And that's Love marriage.

Its fine to settle in whichever way you want to settle. There can be no talk on this. Please..!! But why the girls and guys are not ready to take the rejections in the marriage procedure. Now I am talking about Arranged marriage only.

Most of the suitable young folk who earn a good amount of money, who has a good profile for marriage but could not get a match for them are seen to feel too much about “ REJECTIONS”.

First of all that ego comes in between that “ I am so capable, so no body has the right to reject me”…!! This typical thought…comes to play.

Yes you might know to earn good money, you might be proficient in your job performance, you might have a good apartment for which you pay regular EMI., you might have a car and many more things to your credit……But the fact is you are not wise enough in terms of “ Relationship” ..

BECAUSE IF YOU WOULD BE COULD AT TACKLING YOUR RELATIONSHIP, THEN YOU WOULD NOT HAVE TO LOOK FOR MATCHES…

You need to understand your own good side and bad side…

You cannot be good at everything…

And that's really “ Okay ” Nothing wrong in searching for a partner in the matrimonial sections…No that's really cool. Then why do you feel so much concerned about getting rejected????

Nowadays people are so concerned about themselves that if their match does not choose them or calls of the marriage. They take it seriously to the heart… 

Are bhaai…!! Were you lovers ?? you did not fall in love with your match? It was just an arrangement going on so that you could live happy ever after…..(Some of course falls in love with their arranged partners-That's a different case)

But since you get rejected in a marriage arrangement why do you hesitate for getting to meet the other choices??

The aim of an arranged marriage is to find a suitable match for you. Until and unless you get that match, you need to keep trying. So if your ego comes in between then you are the one going to be the looser.

Today I write this blog because I have many people around me, who simply complains about getting rejected in an arranged marriage. They just don't want marriage because if the process doesn't work out they would have to suffer rejections.

I thought it would be something helpful if I discussed and share the matter with you guys… so I shared this blog…!!