Many a times I have people say that, ' oh how I loved my school days, what a wonderful life it was in my childhood days. 

I have often heard people say such sentences which I don't find so very appealing or attractive to me. This is because I don't like to go back to my childhood days. I had to got to school, I had to to sit for exams, i always had to follow the rules set by my elders, I had to get scolding from my elders, I had no sense at that times, I was so stupid ,I could not take decisions, I was so coward, I did not have money, I had less experiences…and so on.

When I think of my childhood I cannot think of one reason why I should like to go back. Though I had a very happy childhood. Yet, this present phase of my life is more exciting and full of surprises.  

After lots of years of hard work I have got this years of adulthood in my life. I have given some hundreds of exams and tests to achieve this phase of my life. So how can I call it bad.

Today I dont have parents running after me, teachers running after me. I have taken my own responsibility. Moreover I have taken the responsibility of my soulmate and life partner too. So why should I feel to go back to my childhood. 

I have heard many of my collogues and friend say that they loved their childhood much more than their adulthood. I tried to find out their reason.  What they said was that, they still have parents and family take every decision of their life, they still have pressure of elders, they still are dependent, they still don't have right to expression and so on.

So these were some of the many reasons why they were sad about their adulthood. But I think before blaming others, one should blame their selves for such things. 

Every new day is a gift from God. So we should always try to learn something new in life. If we do not make an  effort  to work hard, to make differences, to grow and to find out our happiness's, then we will never enjoy any phase of our life.  

I personally feel I have gathered so many experiences throughout my life that I can understand peoples mind now. I can take decisions for myself now. I am not always guided by my family. Yes, my family do care about me. But they do not interfere into everything that I do. I have earned a respectful place in my life through my work and my experiences.

Today I am a confident woman. I help other people to make a good life. I run my business successfully. I follow my passion. I do everything that I was not able to do in my infant stage of my life. So this phase of my life is a gift for me.

Even when I grow older, I would feel blessed because till then I would become much more experienced. 

So every stage of our life isa a blessing for us. Each stage has somethiung to offer to us. We must gladly accept them and don't try to ignore what we are enjoying in the present phase of our lives….!!!