Hello everyone. This is my first blog here. I was confused what should I write and then I thought why not something we all go through on a daily basis. Well you must have heard the saying “expectations lead you to disappointments”, true isn't it. But is it really possible to have zero expectations from people especially the ones whom call your family or best friends. In my experience its a no if you are that person well and good. We always expect something from people who are closed to us. Its not always that we expect they are going to do this for us or that but sometimes we just get disappointed how can they do this to us because we have actually never thought of the worst case scenario. Only the people who have went through a lot of hell like trust issues or heartbreaks attains a phase where they just don't expect not because they want to do so but they just have lost the courage to do so. 

I myself went through the same situation. My best friend and I are friends for last 9 yrs. She finally broke my trust, lied to me and then didn't even realize what she did. I was angry crying alone trying to think what should I do now. I didn't want to break the friendship cause somewhere I know she is my best friend and that she cares about me. So after giving a lot of thought on this I finally decided to forgive her and never expect anything again from her. To be honest it was hard it still is but rather than wasting my energy on hating her or fighting with her I decided to use that energy on myself and my self development. The most important thing is we should never care what others do to us or themselves. Its not in our control also not our responsibility. The best thing is to care about yourself and your own deeds. Trust me its going to give you a peace of mind and at the end you are going to love yourself.

So at last I want to say don't focus on expectations from people. With time you will have it from people. When things get wrong just be prepared to deal with it not getting hurt too much.