We human beings always tend to compare ourselves with people  who are superior  to us.We all fail to see that even we are superior  to some but we easily  ignore it. I always  wonder why do we do so in most of the cases??? Is it something  we are trained for ??? No right??? Then why can we think rationally at such times and control  out thinking??? 

Our thoughts  play a very vital role in our life. Sister BK Shivani from Brahmakumari's always says “ Sankalp Se Srishti” ( Hindi) What does it really  mean?? It means that our very own thoughts  have the power to change our life. Yes…it is true…And with my experience  I can surely say that it is indeed powerful.  

However  it won't happen  overnight. Our mind  which is a storehouse and and a production  house of our thoughts is like an adamant kid. It's probably  may be difficult to control  it in the beginning  but as you learn the art of monitoring  your thoughts you can definitely  change the pattern of your thinking.

So coming  back to where we started, when things go wrong with us we tend to compare ourselves  with people  who are more fortunate  than  us as I said earlier,isn't it? So next time I want  you guys to just tweak your thinking  pattern a bit…let me tell you how??… 

Firstly, concentrate your thoughts on what you already  have rather than continuously thinking  about  something  that you don't  have right now. Secondly,  think of the people who don't  have  what you have  right now. This will give you a sense of superiority  and you would  feel blessed. And you will see a shift in your mood just by thinking  this way. You would  no more discriminate  yourself for not having or getting  something  that you desire. So next time when you are trapped in such kind of thoughts remember  to pause before your train of thoughts starts running  against  you and tell yourself  that you are much more fortunate than many others around you so you you really  don't need to pull yourself  down with your own thoughts. Situations  are not in our hands but reactions  to the situations  is something  we can always control and monitor. 

Remember  one thing…Everything  comes to you at the right time… so be patient  and be hopeful  always!!!!

Happy Reading!!!

Regards,

Apurva