hey everyone, i am here to continue my blog.
so its about my 3rd and forever last relationship. as one of a friend commented to understand the person that's what i did in this relation.
so it was started during my graduation. my acne problem was reduced and i was quite happy at that time. so there is this person who was my senior but was also my friend. our friendship was the best he never commented about my face or never disrespected me. he was also respectful towards other friends or girls whatever.
And one day he came to me and asked “ do you want to date anyone. ” i said “ i am done with dating i am not interested.” then he asked me to reconsider. i said i was not interested. Then one day we went on a trip to beach all of our gang out of the blue he proposed me and i got angry and got out from there.
he kept persuading me for 6 months and i was loosing my temper. so as someone suggested to know the person inside out , as i know everything about him i said i am still not interested but i will give it a try. he was happy at that time but the story starts after a month.
we started knowing each other, meeting each other regularly, everything was good. but something was off. i was always trying to make a move and i said i am still not ready please let me take some time . he said “okay i will wait .” during exam time we sit with our juniors so out of the blue a rumor landed into my ears. they were talking about my boyfriend. a girl was saying to her friend that my boyfriend made a move on her. i confronted her saying “ what the ….ridiculous, don't ever make false representations." then she showed instagram chat and i was shocked. i asked him showing the chat he said it was his friend who chatted like that. i pretended to believe it and started digging everything. and this is what i found:
i found everything with proofs and confronted that piece of…. and he started making excuses . god at that i thought i was lucky for staying alert. i said its over and it was almost time of lockdown so i returned home. then he started to make rounds around my house , blackmailing that he would break into my house, calling 100's of times, calling my dad …etc.. this went on happening until now and i am still fighting with him. one day i couldn't get on hold of myself so i shared with my brother and he offered help. i said i will ask when i couldn't handle anymore.
that's what happened guys, i know that i don't know how to judge people and they were all my mistakes and i realized it and concentrating on my life . bye everyone.