Hello there!! No No..We are not going discuss about the age-old topics of trust issues or ego problems in relationships here. We are here to discuss about a little chemistry first.

Yeah!! You heard me right. The same old thing we all have learned in the school.

So wait. What is the thing between periodic table and our love life? Absolutely nothing, isn't it? Apparently that is not right considering the results of number of studies conducted with respective to the stimulus induced in human brains which are nothing but biochemical compounds as a response to what is happening in our love life.

The compounds are oxytosin, vasopressin, dopamine, serotonin and cortisol.They are responsible for all the pressure and happy feelings inside our body when we fall in love .This hormonal cocktail causes several physiological reactions like excessive sweating, rapid heartbeat, pupil dilation, sleep disorders, and loss of appetite which are all the so called ‘symptoms’ of fallen in love. And the sad truth is that, these chemical guys are not interested to stay with us forever as they did in the beginning. To be exact, not more than a maximum of 3 years. As a result, people get the hardship of not feeling the same thing which was there in the initial phase of their relationship.

Once all the biochemistry is subsided, people get themselves lost from the euphoria of clouds they build for themselves and land back on earth realizing thing are not going well and something to be done about it.

And then?? Then comes the reality of frustrations, anger ,abuses, sadness and literally everything upside down.

So, If the falling in love experience is not the real love then what is it??

It is the kind of love which is not selfish in nature. It understands and not fascinates over drama. The understanding that this person choose to love and accept me with all the goods and bad sides of my character and I should also be doing the same without waiting for the magical feeling of falling in love everyday. The acceptance that we are not going to feel the butterflies in stomach feeling now on and it is perfectly fine to be like that .It's a myth and in the real world all that matters is the conscious endeavor of understanding and caring for each other.

That is it. It is all about the efforts that we put in to make things work.There is no magic or nothing like blind in love. Nothing like the romantic fantasy which we see in movies. Do the best you can to keep things alive.It's about the little gestures and the I will be there for you moments that all makes it up to what is called the love which lasts a lifetime.

Thanks for your time guys!!