Let's start today within interesting fact to know about that biggest gift of evolution that humans have obtained is they can communicate and pass on their message to other person. Many of the other creatures on this planet use to convey their messages but if we personally talk about ourselves we humans can very easily understand the word which other person is providing to us.
Now driving straight into the topic to which you had read in the title is which one communication skill if you have developed then you would be able to attract anybody literally saying anybody it doesn't matter what is is the person's age gender or or your relationship with him. I will dictate it through one of my story when admit my new friend in a new school.
Suddenly I saw that the person is coming nearby to me it was a pleasant day I was quite happy and want to meet every single child in my classroom. After a moment he came nearby I had show my hand to make a hand shake with him and asked one question what was the funniest part of your yesterday. To which after some moment he replied that small brother was very hardly beaten by his mother in enthusiasm he was speaking and I had not at the point I next action was to use the skill which I am talking about the thing done over there was and made attempt to find out what he want me to act upon and what is thought process is for me to question again about the incident at his home. Matching his emotion and enthusiasm I had respond very cleverly explain me more about I am listening to you and after that he had given me the complete explanation and elaboration he was happy in explaining and giving me the point and in the truth and I'd even not disturb him while he was speaking I had followed the rule to listen very quietly and sincerely to which had managed to have a great friendship with him and now he is one of my good friend but there is the time came when I need to tell you what is the one single thing I want to mention in the above all situation and if you follow the same principle are you can say philosophy of communication then you would be also like I have a ability to attract any person without giving any of the words but still improving your personality
Philosophy behind this all action:
See by the time we are in the the Teenage we had developed a habit of gaining importance we want that people will give us some value and to obtain that value our subconscious mind has created a mouth filter which is a tool that has the action which is related to speak only those particular words which is at the end make other people feel happy to talk and as a result to it other person will give us importance. Now applying this on day to day life speaking a speaker comes near to you and because they are binded by the mouth filter created by the subconscious mind they will only going to say those compliments which will make you interested in listening now if you can somehow find a way through which the other person needs to explain his complement or if you could somehow find a way to match his exact emotions and enthusiasm then speaker will feel important to you and will establish a strong bond between you to. And after that moments he will automatically got attracted talking to you.
That's all for today let's meet tomorrow.