Published Jun 2, 2021
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When Mom Abuses Me.........

Published Jun 2, 2021
2 mins read
492 words

Parents are always complaining about their children that they don`t listen to them…….

But i really wanna ask this to all the parents “Are you guys willing to listen to us when we want you to?”

It really hurts parents….when we have a full logical explanation and all the reasonable facts to answer you back and that all facts are perfectly right and we don`t even cross our limits while explaining that to you but you just pass us a comment saying “hey! you have completed 2 or 3 classes……now you will tell us how to treat you…”

 Mom and Dad, we are not telling you how to treat us……we are just explaining to you that now , we are adults too……and when you use abusive words and slangs in front of us we just can`t tolerate it because we were always taught by you and teachers not to say anything bad or use abusive words for anyone and now you are doing the same that you have taught us not to do.

Yesterday, my mom does the same thing and i stood up against that unacceptable behaviour and try to explain myself to her and asked her to admit her mistake but my efforts turn out in vain……and she said “Now, you don`t have to teach me how to talk to you. I am your mother , not you."

Dear parents , please at least try to understand us once .We are not wrong. The thing is you guys don`t want to listen us .

Parents…..you always make comparisons by saying “Look at your cousion how helping she is, she always helps your aunt in household chores and just look at you how undisciplined you are ………”followed by a lot of verbal abuse……     Mom, have you ever looked at her grades? Oky……fine if her grades are excellent but do you really know how she actually behaves when she is out with us? NO, you don`t. We know her better than you guys,she always talk to us not to you……she is always sugarmouthed to you.                                                                                                                             We never said you that look at her parents…..how well they are behaving with their child , how they are treating her. We never asked for too much … we want you guys to just behave like normal beings who are not comparing their children,who are not abusing their children .

It was your choice to have us…..at the time of planning us you must have already anticipated the responsibilities and environment that you should have to give your children. So, when we are growing within that environment now , what`s the issue then?

Please understand us , we didn`t asked a way too much that is impossible to give .We just asked for your support and normal behaviour.

NOTE : It is not to offend anyone`s feelings ,it`s just an appeal to understand us .

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achievergirl 6/3/21, 5:25 AM
@santhosh85 yup , that is the only problem ."they are parents.....they just don`t behave like being parents"
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neeta.kumari 7/4/21, 6:17 AM
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nobin.karthik 9/20/21, 6:30 PM
Chill.. Indian parents are like this.. finish your studies and fly away from india..hehe

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