Have you ever experienced your mistake turning out to be fruitful sometimes? It would be great if this takes place. But that hardly happens. As they say, every coin has two sides, every mistake has one positive and another negative side as well. We just need to perceive it.
A mistake is part of human behaviour, an human error, or a fault and there's no shame to accept it. It is something that happens unknowingly. Some have solutions, others have huge consequences and can never be rectified. A premeditated action you did intentionally cannot be called a ‘mistake'. Also, there is no such thing as a deliberate mistake.
‘Life is so beautiful that it gives a chance to correct our mistakes.’ -Gaur Gopal Das
It's bad if our faults hurt somebody and even miserable if we deny it. Mistakes are always wrong but correcting them is definitely in our hands. And that's possible if we start accepting our mistakes. We humans are not always ready to accept our faults just because of the three-letter word 'ego' or that feeling of being portrayed as inferior plays with our mind. We need to stop thinking likewise. And it will take time. Making mistakes isn't a sin but not accepting it is. This is our part of acceptance.
In this increasing youth era, having a lot of potentials, enthusiasm, and the eagerness of achieving something very fast we do some serious mistakes. It might be while arguing with friends, family, anyone, or maybe when you are doing something or judging anyone. But in all that hurry, anger, anxiety, we tend to forget to correct it or apologizing for the same. But when you realize it, then and there ask for forgiveness and rectify it. Saying sorry doest mean you are wrong, it means you value the person more than being correct. Here comes the part of apology because once the time is gone then it's impossible, as we never know how long people are with us.
And the last one, forgiveness. If another person's mistake is not that harmful or hurting, and he is feeling pity, showing remorse for his fault, and asking for another chance then it is absolutely ok to forgive him/her, forget it and move on rather than keeping grudges. Just ask yourself once, that mistake is more important or the person. Don't make the person feel pity afterwards. Small mistakes are acceptable.
Our mistakes aren't planned by god but his plan accommodates our mistakes. Just like while driving if we take one wrong turn, google maps immediately reroutes to get us to the destination, but the time increases, those are the consequences. Some mistakes may be unforgivable and worth punishing but ‘Karma’ will definitely hit back, you need not worry, forget it and move on.
When we continue doing the same mistake repeatedly our situation becomes like those tangled strings or a swamp, and then it is hard to untangle it and come out. Start learning lessons from the mistakes you did in the past, and try not to repeat them. You have to choose how you deal with your glitches.
Just reading cautiously won't make any difference until you put them in your behaviour and then see the change.
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