love- when it comes to this word, everything results in chaos as different people has different meanings, some don't even have meanings. but why? why life becomes so complicated when it comes to love? why people find it so difficult to find their love? even if some have, they just not valuing it unless it is gone, why?

well, here is the answer. So simple, the answer lies within us, yeah LOVE IS NOT COMPLICATED AT ALL. The problem lies within us, yeah, we are complicating it. 

Love is a magic which can make wonders if it happens at the right time with the right person. And that's where problem lies because finding right person at right time is not everyone's cup of tea, right? 

Now let me tell you few things which may help you at times. First of all, never ever consider infatuation as love. Infatuation is something everyone experiences in their teens. people often mistake it as love and fall for it. of course, we all have hormonal changes, a part of our puberty and we get attracted towards others. And that's completely normal. The thing is we should know how to control it. Everyone fails in controlling it, a bitter truth. The one who master to control their feelings will be able get past the toughest phase of life ie the teen phase.

As we all know teen phase is the phase of life where we meet many temporary peoples, where we get many hearts break and also where we get to learn as many lessons as possible which not even books can teach. So be very careful in that phase.

once you get passed the teen phase successfully, you will be able to decide maturely whether the decision you are taking is right or wrong. you will be able to choose your person properly without any infatuation.

Now the most important thing is, even if we find true love, the ship is not sailing to a port called marriage and that's because people don't know how to sustain the relationship.

I always hear people say that the most important thing in relationship is trust. I agree, but I feel that " understanding " is more important than trust because only when we understand each other enough, trust builds. And only after trust builds in, the relationship can go on.

So first try to understand your partner, I can assure you understanding is not as easy as it sounds. 

The next important one, which also people miss out in love is “spending quality time with your partner”. Always prioritize your partner and spend time with them means “Don't speak with them like whenever you get time, speak with them, be with them by spending your time, even it is ten minutes a day, it's okay, because you are spending it for them. Time is something very precious and spending such thing for a person means it conveys they are that important to you”. So, no matter how busy you are, spend some time for your partner.

Well, I hope these little information helps you sail your ship, you know what, just find the person who values you and your feelings and understand them, trust them with all your heart (don't break their trust on you too because once trust breaks, it's really hard to build again), spend time. And then love will do wonders in your life. Of course it will, why not magic happens when you have a person to share what you feel without being judged, to be yourself around them. 

Trust me, love is a magic, and it can be in any form. Love is not something only between two opposite genders. 

Last but not the least, whatever flaws you have or whatever problems you have in your love, you can fight the way you want but at the end of the day, your go to person must be your only love. no matter whatever happens, a relationship should never get break. That's more and more important. Always go back to your partner, speak your heart out, everything will get resolved, even a deadly storm will get calm, when you speak openly.

Remember, LOVE can do magic only when it is handled right!!!