Hii Guyz how are you all doing hope you are healthy and smiling.

So as we all know tomorrow there is a valentine day many friendships are going to be turn into relationships and love.

So let me share some things about how relationship or bond forms. The most influential factor in relationship is the proximity the people with whom we have the most contact. We are most likely to be friends with people we have regular contact with. It is also easy for us to form a bond with people we see often because we have the opportunity to get know each other. The reason why proximity matters to attraction is that it brings familiarity, people are more attracted to the one who are familiar. Just being around people we like or familiar being repeatedly exposed to them increases the likelihood that we will be attracted to them in some way not only romantically. We tend to feel safe with familiar people as we are likely to know what to expect from them. But sometime we expect many things from people which are not always reciprocated by them which hurt us more than anything cause we know when this feeling re surfaces it the bond is not going to be same again.

Similarity is also an influential factor after the proximity that who we form relationship with. We are also likely to become friends or lovers with someone who is familiar ton us in attitude ,background, hobbies and lifestyle. Sharing things in common will certainly make it very east to get along with others and to form bond with.

We have already discussed how proximity and similarity lead to formation of connection and relationships bit beside this reciprocity and self disclosure are also important. Reciprocity make it possible to build relationship and continuation of relationship, Reciprocity is not something which we always get because what one person can do , another person cannot do that cause sometimes not everyone feels the same way do for them maybe there will be mutual feeling but not on the same level. To have reciprocity in the relationship , both partner should be able to accept personal responsibility. To have the reciprocal relationship it is very important to talk about each others personal value system. for instance, in some bonds people value affection as an important condition  for a healthy relationship , while the other partner is not on the same page. Due to such situation reciprocity can be difficult from both the sides.

PART 2 IS SO TO BE PUBLISHED