Hi ,
This is someone who's just an introvert but had a headfull of thougths. Thought to share something through a platform which provides money for putting my headful of thoughts...loll…This might be the only platform that just drag me to put an effort for sharing something which i couldn't tell in person. let me ask a question ,,, “Introverts are the quiet , moody , silent ,shy persons around you” is this true or a myth? if that's the case then i should not be an introvert because when it comes to talking and being active i'm like a pro in that with my fellowmates and even with the stranger .As we know actors can express well on screen but in offscreen they might have been having different set of life which might be opposite to their reel character. so this doesn't mean actors are good at expressing in both reel as well real . Remember they are acting! as most of us think people who are having a set of good communicating skills and understanding are well behaved and considered them as extroverts. But to crack this i took sometime in my life to understand certain phrases which doesn't always go with the literal meaning.
INTROVERT!!!! uhh this term has a picture of some one who is dealing with some phsychological disorder of not being able to communicate as well as present themselves. Buttt in actual its literal meaning may have the same sense but in deep down of human mentality its about stucking at a point of putting their emotions to the right person in the right time and the right moment.
If the girl/boy who is active all the day doesn't mean she has nothing left out to tell to people ,,,she/he is speaking which she wanted to but in deep down she is the one who is putting her/his emotions hold for not popping out to right people when required. This might be one of the main reasons for one side love failures . again love failure not only happens between a couple but this shall happens with a child and their parents. due to this the child always fail to express there thoughts, their dreams, their love towards them and fails in many more ways just due to bowing themselves to this little insecurity thing of not being able to pull out there emotions to right people at the right time. it's not like the children have feeling of scared to their parents but sometimes its due to their overwhelmed loved which makes them being silent for so many times.
Two people are always will have a good friendship until and unless one of them have started building their feelings for another and that's were the point begins with the insecurity of not able to tell their feelings. and there begins the introvert character of a person starts showing up unknowingly which in most of the times result in not so good results in life. We the people are giving the fuel of insecurity to our introvert personality resulting in loosing many things and moments in our lives.
I just want to tell that when you are feeling something that is stopping you from expressing the inner you consider that as something which is not you and just clean that barrier immediately . so its like a something which got stuck on you and you are carrying it all along until you ruin your emotional structure which was built rom so long right from you were born. just clean it away with a smile and concequences are always be there whether you do or donot .then y to face some unlike situations with out trying from our end. As always kill your enemies with a smile that's were the war end neither with blood nor with giving up. on this good note just telling you my happy goodbye!
So, lets connect in sometime until then take care:)