Published Jun 16, 2021
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Don't Help Unless Its Necessary!

Published Jun 16, 2021
2 mins read
434 words

Strong people don't put others down,

They lift them up.

So hi this is, Akhilesh with a new blog new topic hope the readers like it.

This is also a personal story of mine as I am good at helping at each and every aspect, part and time in life. I like to help others its like the feeling or push towards humanity that I help everyone whether its cooking or leaving your seat for an elderly people. I don't expect thanking from people whom I have helped or will help.

Don't think that you will be helped because you help others.. 

If you think that you will get rewarded by any means for helping others then you are wrong. You have a wrong thinking because if you want something in return for helping others then you are โ€œtradingโ€ with yourself and never ever happiness will come in your life.

Real meaning of helping others..

Real love has no strings attached. Most people give with wanting something in return and that leads to an unhealthy relationship. When you give, give from your heart, and the universe will reward you. It feels to good to give freely like you are passing energy to others and if you help without expecting anything in return you will find that it is much rewarding.

My point of view-

Help but don't help unnecessarily because helping the people who is need is good but if people make you their need because you help every time is bad. We have a gardener who is poor we kept him because he don't have a job to do and no earnings so we kept him. Every where on this earth you get paid for the work but if no work no payment, this also applies for him. One day came to our house but he didn't worked that day and he asked for some money so we provided him the amount and he was happy but we didn't knew that it will become a headache for use. After another couple of days he came again to ask for help, so we told him if no work no pay but still we helped him and now this has became his weekly routine to ask for money unnecessarily. So this is how helping people makes you their need. Its said that help people to that extent till they attain a position to help themselves otherwise helpers will become a source and they will get always ask for your help and don't do anything in their life.

#Relationship
#helppeople
#trading
#help
#expectations
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mugdha.singh 6/16/21, 6:52 AM
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Very well written!๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿป
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sweta_das 6/16/21, 6:54 AM
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Agreed.
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vidushi 6/16/21, 8:52 AM
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its really nice. Please follow back
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abhishek_krtr 6/16/21, 9:34 AM
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not good bro, it becomes boring after you start reading the your view section
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abhishek_krtr 6/16/21, 9:34 AM
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just being honest with u
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abhishek_krtr 6/16/21, 9:35 AM
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others are faking for themselves
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up61_pandeyji 6/16/21, 9:55 AM
Thanks Abhishek for honest review will try to do best next time
laughter.unforgettable 6/16/21, 11:15 AM
Good
izziikiel.gamer 6/16/21, 11:18 AM
Nice
payalrathi 6/17/21, 3:16 AM
Well written
test.pubg 6/17/21, 4:55 AM
Very good
priya24 6/17/21, 5:07 AM
Great
amanpandey 6/17/21, 5:12 AM
Nice
aman.rr 6/17/21, 5:15 AM
Good
123life_is_beautiful 6/19/21, 8:07 AM
Well written
gayathi.k.m 6/22/21, 4:29 AM
very accurate๐Ÿ‘Œ๐Ÿ‘Œ
vaishali0312 6/22/21, 6:23 AM
nice one check my blogs too
vibhu07 6/22/21, 2:46 PM
Damn True. I am reading all your posts & giving feedbacks in form of likes and comments. D_o r_e_a_d m_y p_o_s_t_s

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