Hi friends, it was just a couple of days since I posted my previous post, but it looks like a long time. Thanks for the support and the encouragement you provide by reading my posts. So, as the title suggests, the first enemy in love is the possessiveness. In the initial stage of our love, we might feel happy, if our partner gets jealous on seeing the affection someone else showers on us. We would tease them with that affection just for fun. But, as the days passes it will become root that will help our partner create oppression on us. 

They will start to interfere on our privacy by blaming that affection shown on us as the main reason. We should never love as a weapon  by unnecessarily threatening our loved ones, if you leave me I will die, doubting on the loyalty of our partner. These above mentioned points will spoil our relationship to the core. The true love dies then and there. It is very difficult to solve the problems and develop trust in the relationship. It is hard to make the relationship proper, the possessiveness will become a big uncurbable disease.

They would liked us due to various reasons, but our partner might now be hating us for the similar reasons. They would force us to change the habits that we liked in ourselves. We might become prey to their false tears and love dialogues, then we will start losing ourselves and become nothing at the end. If you feel that you don't have a proper place for yourselves in the relationship, it is always better to break up that relationship. We must try our level best to uphold our relationship, if we feel that this relationship will not work out, then break the relationship chain mutually.

There are a lot of things which are as important as love in the relationship. Among them, the most important ones are respect for your partner and trust. If we make mistakes in these two important aspects and show the loads of love, then also there will no use. It will be considered as a mere trash. So, it is very very important when we be in a relationship and maintaining relationship with our partner is not everyone's cup of tea. So, we must consider these factors before getting into relationship.

Thanks for reading, will be back with another good blog, next time…….