Hi friends, hope all are doing good. I am back with another blog. We are trying to do something good, but it is ending up in a bad manner. Dont know why. For example, in a work we are being extra cautious and sending reminder to complete a particular task as we are nearing a ending day. But, the person who are supposed to complete that task is thinking that, we are burdening them.
There are many such scenarios in real life. We might do some deeds in a good manner, but sometimes it ends up in a bad result. So, we are in a terrible situation and it makes us feel guilty. We are unable to overcome that situation, ending in a lot of misunderstandings. The next time, if a similar situation comes, the old misunderstandings also is being pointed out.
As a human being everyone might lose out on their mind and leave some lose talks. May be when they speak out on it, they wont realise it as bad. After sometime, the mind will realise the bad deeds created by us. But the conversation wont end then and there, it will involve all the previous conversations that happened between them.
This will create a lot of rift in the families and relationships. Sometimes, we would have intented to say in some meaning, but it would have been conveyed in a different manner. It is very hard to convince people who had been hurt by us. It is like they are broken glass, it cannot be reformed again.
Sometimes, it feels like better to stay alone and not to have any conversation with anyone. Especially, I get thoughts of not doing good to anyone. Just live for yourself, be as selfish as much as you can. Even if someone else starts an argument, just surrender yourself and dont try to prove the right things on your side. Because no one knows the pain you undergo, they always try to say that, they have more pain than you and your pain is nothing to them.
No one knows how much pain you undergo and they will always try to explain the mistake on our side. And moreover, the world is least bothered about our weakness in health, this world just sees your age and they will say, you are weak for this age. But, in this age They never knew, how much stress and strain I had undergone.
Thanks for reading….