Hi friends, thanks for the support in the previous blogs. This blog is kind of sensitive, so don't know, if you guys will like it. I will try to handle this topic in a subtle way. As most of us have crossed 18 years in this candlemonk platform, I feel that we might have seen atleast one dear person of us, who have died. Death is natural and no one can escape death, it varies from a person to person. Someone might die at a very young age and the other one might die at a old age.
Death is basically not in our hands. It is not a easy thing to digest the death of our dear ones. Many people of this generation still won't be knowing how to behave in a house where a death has happened recently. We would need to know, what to talk to those relatives of the deceased person. We might talk something in a casual manner, but that might be conveyed in a wrong manner, so we need to be very careful in that. We should always try to explain them, it is definitely an unbearable loss, but we have to overcome them and stay strong.
We should say that they are still with us in our hearts. We need to try to make them feel better, we should not showcase any kind of smile during those days. Another important thing is, we should never say that we will go and come back in a death house. This is because, it indirectly conveys a meaning, that there is going to be another death in this house and I will come for that too. It is really painfully, but no other option. As soon as our role in this world ends, we will die for sure.
But, no one can predict the end of our life, until it is a suicide, that too there are chances that many people survived when they attempted suicide and many people died without even having any symptoms of death. The major worry comes to death when it becomes unnatural, if someone is killed by another person or someone dies of a accident and things like that. I began to write this blog, because I had attended the death of my friend's father today and felt very sorry for him. That uncle used to praise me a lot and was very supportive. I could not beleive that he is no more.
Thanks for reading….