Dear all, thanks for the wonderful support throughout the journey of candlemonk, please stay with me and my content throughout possible. So, in the blog I am going to discuss some life experiences, it may be real or read from somewhere and so on. Now, let us get into the topic.

How many of you are ready to accept criticism, I can expect very few answers to be yes and rest of them will always say a No. The reason that we are being criticised is that the expectation from us is very huge and we are not meeting the expected criteria. It may be any case. In schools, teacher may criticise us for getting low marks or not well behaving. Teacher knows that we are capable of scoring more marks, they know that we are good enough to behave well, but there are some things that prevent us from doing so.

Similarly in our home too, we might get irritated if our parents are criticizing us. What are they going to get on criticizing us. It is their well wish for us to progress in life, they might have faced a lot of problems in their life, they dont want their son or daughter to undergo the same situations, so they criticise, they do it to safegaurd us. As we all know, Prevention is better than cure, criticism is also kind of a preventive act.

But, there are some cases, where this criticism will be on the sole aim of creative negative thoughts in people's mind. For example, if you are a celebrity in sports, film or politics. They may criticise the person and make them feel low. In the current days if we take cricket, Virat Kohli is little bit struggling in his form, so the media is kind of criticising him, We all know that he is a champion player, But, the way the media is criticising him is not fair. Every player would have undergone some bad patch in their career. Kohli is just 33, we can expect atleast 5 years of cricket from him, because he is fit enough. Hopefully, he overcomes all the criticism and performs well for the team.

We need to analyse the criticism and check if it is for our positivity, then we need to do it to perfection, if it is related to our negativity, just ignore them and show in actions.

Thanks for reading…..